“...now all the suddenly I’m burdened with telling people this “thing”

Was thinking about it and it’s like now all the suddenly I’m burdened with telling people this “thing” about myself at some point or another because it’s “helpful” and “useful” information for them to know, as if the boundaries that are set have to be explained to some degree and they just can’t be the way I am?? Because the way it is or the way I am is so other than you, there has to be something. Cause no I’m not awkward or socially uncomfortable, I am not an introvert or shy, so why would... it not be okay to put your hand on my shoulder or wrap your fingers around my arm?