Hereditary

Sexual trauma is an epidemic in my family. My parents learned from the mistakes of their parents and shielded me from the abuse they and other relatives suffered. I didn't learn that they had both been abused as children until my teens, but all the hallmark signs of wary survivors were upon both of them. They didn't want my comfort; but they made sure to instill in me that the world was a very dangerous place for a young, pretty girl like me. That I couldn't be nice in some scenarios, but had to advocate for myself and for what is right. I appreciate that they protected me, but I wish we didn't live in a world that forced parents to train their little girls in "street smarts" so early.